shout to lbpq girls who grew up in strictly Christian household: your love is valid and real and not a sin, and you do not have to listen to anyone who tells you that your love will send you to hell or prevent you from going to heaven. your relationship with god, if you choose to have one, is yours and yours alone and no one else can tell you how to handle that relationship. please don’t believe you are damned, my loves. you are beautiful and valid and blessed.